Immigrant Observations in London

He was anxious. Worried and stressed. Didn't want to show his real self. Couldn't even if he wanted to anyway.
In his world weakness is unforgettable.
No mercy for unlucky souls who show emotions. Because emotions are for  weak and weakness is something you stay away from.
  
It is not a choice. It is a must. First rule of survival. Your game face. Straight, blank, practiced but natural.

The problem was he didn't fit any part of this segregated society. He knew that.

To start with he was an outsider, an immigrant, foreigner, an alien he would have been called if he was in USA.

How race, colour, age, sex did not matter. Once you have the accent in London you are the one. The one who arrived late.

Any accent would do. North London, south London, Essex, Brummie, Scottish, Irish, Indian, Patois but not immigrant one.

You get stamped straight away. Everybody knows that you are new here.
They treat newbies different in London. No matter where are you from or who you engage with, you get looked down.

Anybody who was born in the UK will judge you right there and then. Mostly you start the interaction with minus points.

You get struggle in the beginning but get used to it in time and accept it sometime very soon.
Once the peace made with unavoidable faith you start playing the game.

Learning the rules. Rules that emposed in to you by unwritten society rules. Everybody knows but nobody speaks of.

Unwanted fight

He knows what he wants

People don't

Hard to explain

but

He tries, barely..


Gives up sometimes

Pick himself up

When he gets weak

Knowing the borders

of

His limits won't help

If they refuse

to see


Unwanted fight

not willing to win

or lose

with humans

always believe they have

right to choose


Screaming to light

Whispering in dark

Scared of them

being black or white

Giving up the once again

Knowing to start

All over again..

London Poem

They all come to London

Big dreams,

Soon abandon

Center of the world

One language turns hundred

Getting hurled

Memories Plundered

City is busy

Ignores you

You feel dizzy

Have no Clue

Not easy to get here

Harder to leave

When you realise

It's too late

There is nothing to achieve

Love and hate

You are in between

Knowing its too late

To get clean

London Knows you are here

Sad and tired

Only sees but cant here

You think you are fired

No more inspired

Done, Leaving no more,

The city is the pimp

and

You are just a whore..

How to share your feelings 3

When you decide to share your feelings there is one important rule. Do not justify.

Explain but not justify.

Remember they are your feelings. You can give a reason of course but you don’t need a confirmation or agreement.

All you need is to be listened and being understood when you share your feelings.

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How to share your feelings 2

Sharing your feelings must free you not make you feel under pressure.

You have to be confident, relax and powerful when you are opening up with your most personal feelings.

If you are not ease then either you are not ready or the person you choose is not right.

As long as the conditions mentioned above right you will be the winner. Come out more powerful and emotionally connected. This will lead to happiness and being positive.

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Do you miss your girlfriend?

When you are in a long-term relationship and living together, you do not realise how much you get used to being with your partner.

You wake up, go to work, do your errands, go to the gym, etc.. and come home to her, eat your food, watch tv, talk a little and go to bed.

Busy life for sure but you are addicted to her being there with you. Next to you. Same room, Sleeping in the same bed. It adds up. Adds up so much you understand how important her being there. Close to you. Next to you.

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Hipster jokes from east London

My poetry bring all the hipsters to the yard and they're like "How Avant-garde" 

If a tree falls in the woods, and nobody's around to hear it, will a hipster buy the soundtrack? 

Dear Hipster, Jesus loved you before you were cool. 

If a hipster does something but doesn't Instagram it, did it really happen? 

I ain't no hipster, but I can make your hips stir. 

Dear Hipster, no matter how cool you think you're making it look...It's still alcoholism 

Two hipsters walk into a bar. The first one did it before it was cool, and the second one did it ironically. 

I farted in a room of hipsters and I watched them fight each other over who heard it first. 

So a hipster walks into a bar and, well, you've probably never heard of it. 

What came first the hipster or the mainstream? 

Push a hipster down the stairs, ....now look whose tumbling. 

Hipsters wear jackets in the summer before it's cool. 

Hipsters hate rivers. Too mainstream. 

Do I look fat in this dress?

A- Hey babes,
B-Hey Darling
A- Do I look fat in this dress?
B- No baby
A-Are you sure?
B-Yes baby
A-But you said you like my big ass
B-Yes baby.
A- You think that I am fat???!!!
B- No baby
A- So you think my ass is not sexy???!!
B- No baby.
A- So you say my ass is fat  that means I am fat!!
B- No baby
A- so you calling me fat???!!
B- No baby
A- You don't love me anymore.. go to hell!!!!
B- Baby????

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Basic rules of dating

There are fundamental rules if you want to be successful in the dating game.

First of all what does mean being successful on dating?

-Get a second date?

-One night stand?

-Possible relationship opportunity?

It all depends on what do you want. This is the first rule. 

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What makes you happy?

Do you even ask this question to yourself? I bet you don't. Well, you should. Because the answer will be the route to your pure happiness.

Most people -including you- making decisions based on other peoples beliefs, opinions, ideas etc. This includes a very simple decision to most important one and you know that. Why try to satisfy other people and sacrifice your happiness for acceptance? Unfortunately, this is becoming a norm these days. We must change that but how.?

The first step is being ruthless. In the beginning, hearts will break, people will get hurt. However, in the long turn, the table will change. People who understand your reasons and accept your independent decisions and more importantly respect the way you want to live your life. This process will hurt some people including you but in the end, you will end up with people who care about and who care about you.

Life is not a smooth journey. This is the reality. Accept the reality. Once you do it, then your life will be much simple and happy. Do not make it complicated. Keep it simple. If you decide to do something then just do it. The second you try to justify your decisions to others you become unhappy. NO need for that. Make a decision and go for it. Don't worry. It gets easier and you become happier.
Remember, being happy is not a task. It's your right.  Don't let society to guide you. Follow your heart and mind.
You will never go wrong.

Taken from dailyconversationsblog