Everybody agrees that you only have one chance for a good first impression. Hence the name. FIRST.!
Meeting the family of my girlfriend for the first time. Time to be smart, prepared, focused. Plan ahead. Once again; Be smart. Use the lessons from previous experiences. Follow the rules.
So here I go for that opportunity.
Already lover her, she does love me too but (unfortunately) you have to make sure everybody likes you.
Especially in the beginning. Until they know you and your intentions. Because people judge way too quick these days and if it is not positive it fucks everything up.
So it is time to play the game.
Rule Number One: Do not be an asshole. Be nice. Be patient. Scale people up. Are they sarcastic? Jokers? Serious? Do not rush but be nice.
Rule Number Two: Be Cautious. Keep an eye on your girlfriend when engaging with certain adults. Is she relax? Stressed? Jumpy? So you can manage your communication with that person better.
Rule Number Three: Listen more, talk less. Best way to figure out about the person you have just met. What subject they are passionate about? How much knowledge they have? What kinda word they are using? Are they positive? Negative? Aggressive? Happy? So you can pick little tips and READ MORE..
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Showing posts with label relationship. Show all posts
Saturday, 15 September 2018
Friday, 17 August 2018
Unwanted fight
He knows what he wants
People don't
Hard to explain
but
He tries, barely..
Gives up sometimes
Pick himself up
When he gets weak
Knowing the borders
of
His limits won't help
If they refuse
to see
Unwanted fight
not willing to win
or lose
with humans
always believe they have
right to choose
Screaming to light
Whispering in dark
Scared of them
being black or white
Giving up the once again
Knowing to start
All over again..
People don't
Hard to explain
but
He tries, barely..
Gives up sometimes
Pick himself up
When he gets weak
Knowing the borders
of
His limits won't help
If they refuse
to see
Unwanted fight
not willing to win
or lose
with humans
always believe they have
right to choose
Screaming to light
Whispering in dark
Scared of them
being black or white
Giving up the once again
Knowing to start
All over again..
Wednesday, 25 July 2018
London Poem
They all come to London
Big dreams,
Soon abandon
Center of the world
One language turns hundred
Getting hurled
Memories Plundered
City is busy
Ignores you
You feel dizzy
Have no Clue
Not easy to get here
Harder to leave
When you realise
It's too late
There is nothing to achieve
Love and hate
You are in between
Knowing its too late
To get clean
London Knows you are here
Sad and tired
Only sees but cant here
You think you are fired
No more inspired
Done, Leaving no more,
The city is the pimp
and
You are just a whore..
Big dreams,
Soon abandon
Center of the world
One language turns hundred
Getting hurled
Memories Plundered
City is busy
Ignores you
You feel dizzy
Have no Clue
Not easy to get here
Harder to leave
When you realise
It's too late
There is nothing to achieve
Love and hate
You are in between
Knowing its too late
To get clean
London Knows you are here
Sad and tired
Only sees but cant here
You think you are fired
No more inspired
Done, Leaving no more,
The city is the pimp
and
You are just a whore..
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Wednesday, 13 June 2018
How to share your feelings 3
When you decide to share your feelings there is one important rule. Do not justify.
Explain but not justify.
Remember they are your feelings. You can give a reason of course but you don’t need a confirmation or agreement.
All you need is to be listened and being understood when you share your feelings.
People in the conversation do not need to READ MORE CLICK HERE
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Tuesday, 12 June 2018
How to share your feelings 2
Sharing your feelings must free you not make you feel under pressure.
You have to be confident, relax and powerful when you are opening up with your most personal feelings.
If you are not ease then either you are not ready or the person you choose is not right.
As long as the conditions mentioned above right you will be the winner. Come out more powerful and emotionally connected. This will lead to happiness and being positive.
If you want to be happy.. READ MORE CLICK HERE
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Friday, 8 June 2018
How to share your feelings?
Sharing your feeling is not easy. Feelings are very but very personal. Actually, sometimes it is harder to express your emotional thoughts to people very close to you.
I believe one of the main reasons for that is not to hurt people. Partners, parents, siblings, best friends sometimes take it seriously and get offended, hurt etc.
Remember most of the time people treat the closest bad. Go hard. Heavy. Cause they know you can take it or understand. They know that you will forgive them no matter what.
Looking at the situation on your side. Read More..
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Friday, 25 May 2018
Do you miss your girlfriend?
When you are in a long-term relationship and living together, you do not realise how much you get used to being with your partner.
You wake up, go to work, do your errands, go to the gym, etc.. and come home to her, eat your food, watch tv, talk a little and go to bed.
Busy life for sure but you are addicted to her being there with you. Next to you. Same room, Sleeping in the same bed. It adds up. Adds up so much you understand how important her being there. Close to you. Next to you.
Read more on my blog. Click Here
You wake up, go to work, do your errands, go to the gym, etc.. and come home to her, eat your food, watch tv, talk a little and go to bed.
Busy life for sure but you are addicted to her being there with you. Next to you. Same room, Sleeping in the same bed. It adds up. Adds up so much you understand how important her being there. Close to you. Next to you.
Read more on my blog. Click Here
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Wednesday, 16 May 2018
Do I look fat in this dress?
A- Hey babes,
B-Hey Darling
A- Do I look fat in this dress?
B- No baby
A-Are you sure?
B-Yes baby
A-But you said you like my big ass
B-Yes baby.
A- You think that I am fat???!!!
B- No baby
A- So you think my ass is not sexy???!!
B- No baby.
A- So you say my ass is fat that means I am fat!!
B- No baby
A- so you calling me fat???!!
B- No baby
A- You don't love me anymore.. go to hell!!!!
B- Baby????
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B-Hey Darling
A- Do I look fat in this dress?
B- No baby
A-Are you sure?
B-Yes baby
A-But you said you like my big ass
B-Yes baby.
A- You think that I am fat???!!!
B- No baby
A- So you think my ass is not sexy???!!
B- No baby.
A- So you say my ass is fat that means I am fat!!
B- No baby
A- so you calling me fat???!!
B- No baby
A- You don't love me anymore.. go to hell!!!!
B- Baby????
WANT TO READ MORE CLICK HERE
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Friday, 4 May 2018
Trust in Relationship
Yes, you can. If you want to.
Any doubts in a relationship mean two things. Communication problem or not trusting your partner from the beginning.
Beginning of the relationship is always being the most important decision period. If there is an issue, suspicion, attitude problem, habits that you don't like then sort it or move on before things get serious. If you don't then you carry all these problems with a snowball effect.
Read more on DAILY CONVERSATIONS BLOG
Any doubts in a relationship mean two things. Communication problem or not trusting your partner from the beginning.
Beginning of the relationship is always being the most important decision period. If there is an issue, suspicion, attitude problem, habits that you don't like then sort it or move on before things get serious. If you don't then you carry all these problems with a snowball effect.
Read more on DAILY CONVERSATIONS BLOG
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Saturday, 24 February 2018
Basic rules of dating
First of all what does mean being successful on dating?
-Get a second date?
-One night stand?
-Possible relationship opportunity?
It all depends on what do you want. This is the first rule.
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